Tigger87
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OHs parents live about a 3-4 hr drive away. They called him last week to ask if they could stay next weekend. He said he'd check what he was working but in theory fine. So he was supposed to have Friday off, we have ante natal classes on Saturday morning and then he had work all day Saturday (doing deliveries so by going off for a few hours he'll probably be a bit later finishing).
This is all fine, they planned to come thurs eve so they could spend Friday with him (I'm off all week anyway). He's just found out he's working Friday and Saturday. Rang his dad to let him know and see what they want to do. They can't come until the end of August otherwise, because they have other plans.
What they'd usually do, I think, is to come anyway. Particularly if they know I'm not in work, because then they'll see Jim for a few hours in the evening. But this would mean I have to "entertain" them on Friday all day and Saturday afternoon... And I just can't be bothered with that, they're too much hard work sometimes. I have to cook, tidy up, plan stuff etc, because Jim won't be here to help at all, and then I lose my husband for the evenings because he wants to spend time with his parents because he doesn't see them as often.
I'm so irrationally annoyed by this, it's like they say "we want to see you, we're coming" and the only way it won't happen now is if I'm a bit rude about it (indirectly).
I don't really want any advice, because I KNOW I'm being a selfish, horrible brat. I just want to whine!!
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This is all fine, they planned to come thurs eve so they could spend Friday with him (I'm off all week anyway). He's just found out he's working Friday and Saturday. Rang his dad to let him know and see what they want to do. They can't come until the end of August otherwise, because they have other plans.
What they'd usually do, I think, is to come anyway. Particularly if they know I'm not in work, because then they'll see Jim for a few hours in the evening. But this would mean I have to "entertain" them on Friday all day and Saturday afternoon... And I just can't be bothered with that, they're too much hard work sometimes. I have to cook, tidy up, plan stuff etc, because Jim won't be here to help at all, and then I lose my husband for the evenings because he wants to spend time with his parents because he doesn't see them as often.
I'm so irrationally annoyed by this, it's like they say "we want to see you, we're coming" and the only way it won't happen now is if I'm a bit rude about it (indirectly).
I don't really want any advice, because I KNOW I'm being a selfish, horrible brat. I just want to whine!!
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