I need help ladies . Aoibheann is doing a fantastic job with using the toilet she can wipe and washed her hands and is dry all night . My problem is she's too afraid to get up on the toilet by herself I have a wee step and a cover to make the toilet seat small enough so she won't fall in but she won't get up by herself . Has anyone got any suggestions ? She's a very nervous child she doesn't like heights even hopping out from the car she wants help. I've been accused of babying her but she's genuinely afraid do what can I do ? I can't leave her to get upset .