AF...I hate you...

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This is my first cycle of tcc - so the emotions are all new to me. I thought my first BFN was a big blow a few days ago...but going to the loo to see the first signs of AF arriving a day early is devastating.

I know there is next month. But what annoys me is how my body felt pregnant. Why have I been having cramps/sickness/sore (.)(.) for the last 2 weeks? The thought that I have made myself feel these symptoms sickens me...am I mad or something?

Half of me is still hoping thats its just some kind of small implantation bleed/brown discharge...but with the migraine I had yesterday and back pain...it makes sense that its AF.

To those of you with BFPs this month...you are so lucky..so happy for you. :)

For those in the same position as me, group hug please. :cry: :hug:

Im going to go read about charting/opks......need all the help next month!
 
oh god i can remember my first BFN, i had all the symptons were dead sure i was pregnant but AF got me and spent the rest of the day in bed! :evil:


:hug: :hug:
 
long time ago since our first negs jenna hun.
It is mad how our bodys play tricks but what I think it is before you try to conceive you never notice the little things about your cycle and the AF signs and early Pregnancy signs are so similar there really is no way of knowing until AF is late or you get a BFP
 
IM sorry hun

but yes i was same, was horrible and even now when af arrives i spend most of day in day sulking lol

but mostly the symptoms are in ya head coz you want them to be lol

:hug:
 
Sorry hun, I know how you feel I am always so disappointed when AF arrives, sending you lots of :hug:
 
I thought I was having implantation bleeding last Saturday/Sunday as I had brown discharge and a little pink spotting... so I took a test on Wednesday night which was negative. I am now awaiting my AF after the BFN but I am SO gutted - and we didn't even ttc!!!! It wasn't planned, but we still got so excited at the thought.

Big hug :( :hug:
 
Thanks guys - feel a bit better now I have had the afternoon to mope and have a good cuddle/talk with OH.

Just means next month we have to go for it with full steam.

I think im an impatient person by nature and not used to waiting for things I have control over. I guess I've realised that tcc'ing is not totally all in my control..so I need to chill. But its so hard to be relaxed about something I and OH want so much.

Next month during the 2ww, I am going to take up something new and occupy my mind with that. No idea what though yet! I guess if Im busy and not thinking about pregnancy, I'm hoping I wont feel so ill with symptoms which I had this month and which were quite painful at times.
 
I can only sympathise. I wish I could say it got easier with time but I'mafraid I've not found that to be the case.

I think the best thing you can do is not symptom spot and try to take your mind off it as much as possible.

Goodluck for next month xx
 
Hi,

I know exactly how it feels, and no your not mad... the majority of us are convinced every month.... keep tryin hun... bby dust xx
 

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