I know this should be in relationships but it's bothering me that much I really need the advice. A friend I've had for two years on the military base I live which we where good friends so I though, has been telling people I am an unfit mother, taking my son for a "cuddle" when she was actually checking him for bruises and claiming I can't cope with him because I was honest to people about my depression which I'm no longer on medication for and I've been doing quiet well. I wondered why a fair few people on the base had been off with me especially when I hadn't seen them in ages and well now I know why. I spoke to the person whose been saying that and among other nasties I'm obese etc. Anyway I'm now feeling so low and so fed up about it all that I honestly want to seek police help as this person isn't qualified to of taken my sons clothes off without my permission to check him I have nothing to hide but the fact is this is serious to me because it's my son and was done when I was literally a few feet away and someone who has often had a cuddle with my child in the coffee shop of the base. I'm angry as well because well how dare I be accused of something I would never ever do? The person has also said and I quote "some people want a baby for years and then have one and can't cope" said while looking at me like a piece of muck. I really don't need the stress or the constant crap but I can't trust anyone anymore I really can't. I want to move for my sanity and for less hassle. I've ended up coming back to the base for reasons I'm honestly not wanting to go into but yeah. I don't know what to do and when police involvement was even mentioned this person said I would be laughed at.