My little girl was invited to my friends child's birthday party which was today. We live about 40 mins away on a good day so I left a little earlier. We arrived at hers at 5 to & I phoned her because it didn't look like there was any signs of life at her house. I asked if I could let myself in her gate because it was shut and she said that was fine, so I asked where she wanted me to park & she starting humming and arrring- so I asked her if she was stressed and she laughed and said yeh. Then she said "can you do me a favour and come back in 30 mins?" I said what? She said again "come back in 30 mins" I said but doesn't that party start in 5? She then asked me to drive round the block & come back? They weren't ready- but I know there where people inside because I could hear people in the background. I was quite taken aback, if she'd of asked me for help I would've.. So I started driving up the road, actually getting really quite annoyed and thinking how rude? subsequently my little girl had fallen asleep- so I just came home. OH is cross with me and says I should go back? But I'm really pissed off and feel like she made me out to be an idiot? Am I being silly or would anyone else be annoyed?