Thats a very kind offer but i think I will be ok for clothes etc, I still have all my little boys baby clothes which is lucky.Oh my god what an Arse
I don't understand how people do that to others ... I can't even call him a man. Do you have any family around that can help?
When is your due date? I'm only asking because when the time comes ... Depending on the size of mine ... There may be some clothes I could give you, it depends how big mine are as if they are still wearing them I won't be able to pass them on. Do you have a pram? I have one for sale if not.
Only buy essentials when you buy things as people always buy clothes and toiletries.
And someone will want you, and in my opinion anyone who is happy in a relationship with someone who already has kids and then treats them as his own is a real man
I wish I had more stuff to offer to you but I kind of need it, I have a couple of old changing bags, not in fantastic condition but you are welcome to them? I might somewhere have an old cot duvet, no pillow with it though. I have a couple of sleeping bag things you can have also ... Just let me know.
Sending virtual hugs X
Me neither, I never thought he would do this to be considering he knows what I went through last time and he sees me struggle every day. He preeches on about being a good man but no good man does this xxWow... I can't believe anyone would be so cruel to leave a pregnant woman with whom he was going to buy a house together... I'm so sorry for you, hope you find the courage to get through this.
Maybe he just got scared of all the big changes in his life, a baby, buying a house together, and he'll come back?
I wish I could say anything to help you, but I can only tell you this: there are good men and there are men who don't care you already have children if they really love you. My cousin has 3 children, 2 different fathers (one who left her pregnant too...) And she's in a relationship for over a year now with someone new who doesn't mind at all, he loves playing with her children and taking care of them. So if the stupid person doesn't change his mind about leaving you and his child, it doesn't mean you have to be single the rest of your life.
Lots of hugs and courage for you!
Not really, just said we wasn't compatible in his opinion and that you have to be happy in life. Guess he just wasn't happy with us. Thank you for your kind words xxSending you huge hugs, I'm so sorry to read you are going through this. Did he give any kind of explanation? Not that anything would be good enough.
You have the strength to get through this, and you will find someone when the time is right who will love you and treat you and your children in the way you deserve to be treated.
Xx
I know I can do it, I have done it before, its just difficult now as I relied on his help with the little one with me being in so much pain, he did all the lifting of him etc and financially I have 2 pay days to get us sorted before I leave work.Aww Keely, I'm sorry to read this. It'll be hard at first but you'll soon settle into your own routine and get on just fine and dandy without him. He's not worth your tears and you will find someone to love and who will love you and your boys to the moon and back. Take care xx