A Worried Teenage Boy In Need of Help.

[AWorriedGuy]

hey everybody.

As the title says, I'm a teenage boy that's really worried about my girlfriend being pregnant. My girlfriend and I had sex two weeks ago and she's about five days late at the moment. Let me go through the entire process (bear with me on this one everybody ) so you guys can get all the facts straight. First, I ejaculated on the outside (not from sex), and then we took about two hours until we actually had sex. In between the break, I urinated and we showered before actually having sex. However, I did not ejaculate from the sex and we just stopped due the fear of getting pregnant. We did not use a condom as well (yes i know, it was a terrible decision and i strongly regret it). Her period usually starts on the 1st, but she has been late for a week before.

My question is: Is there a possibility that she actually is pregnant?

-i did not ejaculate directly inside her/anywhere near the vagina.
-i urinated before we actually had sex
-we showered before insertion
-i did not ejaculate from the sex, however we did not use a condom.
-we were using the standard rhythm method (she was about 12-13 days away from her period, her period starts on the first)


Thank you guys for taking your time to read this, I would really appreciate all of your advice and help!

 

[Mum2betash]

I'm sorry I can't really help only that anything is possible. I would get her to do a pregnancy test! Good luck xx

 

[violet13]

I'm sorry but you're both extremely silly putting a "" after "we didn't use condoms" just shows how immature you truly are. It doesn't matter if you used the pull out method she can still get caught educate yourself please! It doesn't matter if you pee before sex or shower before sex that fact is you had unprotected sex! I'm sorry to get so uppity and annoyed but if she is this is for LIFE you cannot just shrug off being a parent and if she gets an abortion this will seriously upset and hurt her. Please just get your girlfriend on birth control and use condoms ALWAYS! Unless you want to be a father right now then why not be careful? Sorry but you're too immature for sex if you cannot be careful and safe.

 

[Shootingstar11]

Can't really add to what the others have said except that Precum can contain sperm, so even if you didn't ejaculate, there is still a risk.

 

[Lulabell]

Agree with the above. Adding stupid faces after admitting not using a condom just shows how silly you are. However, you need to get your gf to take a test. and why has it taken two weeks to fear this now? If you didn't want her to get preg then the are various things you and her can do. Pill, condoms, etc. She could of even taken the morning after pill if it was a concern. Get a pregnancy test and think about what happens if she is. If she isn't, then take action to make sure this doesn't happen again until you are completely ready for parenthood.

 

[netty]

Lol your rhythm method puts her around ovulation I reckon

Listen we're all a bit reckless at some point just get a test and get her to wee on it

Basically no condom - risk of pregnancy no matter what you do ie shower...tie a knot in it ect

Be more careful going forward x

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[SunnySue]

There is always a possibility of pregnancy when there has been unprotected sex. So yes she could be pregnant but the only way to know for sure is to take a test. Hope things work out for you and please be careful in future x

 

[Jayjay027]

I can't really add anything here that hasn't been said already. If you're so worried about it, get her to test! We can't tell u if she is or isn't pregnant.
Also, it might be worth educating yourselves on 'the birds and the bees'. If you are sexually active, you should know the risks involved.

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