Though id update you all on the situation with my step son, ive posted previously on the problems we had with my OHs phsyco ex. Well after she got a ban on us having him, we stuck to our guns by not contacting them at all, as she requested, 8 months after she contacted my OHs sister at her work. My OH reluctanly chatted to her last night, and hes going to his lawyers today to have a contract written up so we can have him every second saturday over night, shes goin off her head saying she wants us to take him 3 times a week over night, exactly what we had been fightimg for in court. Shes gonna look so silly, as she said a all those months ago that we were mistreating her son, eh, well why can we come now, shes a sick compulsive liar. Weve told her were only willing to have him here one sat every 2nd weekend through to sunday at 6pm. So acting like we didnt care worked for us, what a hastle its been OMG, shes even agreed that i can have him the sat while OH is working, maybe coz shes got a new man in her life and she wants to have more time with him. Sorry for the rant but im so relived that its sorted, well once she signs the letter at the lawyers. Fingers and toes crossed XkelX