Hello all!This is my first proper post on this forum,sorry if I waffle on too much!
I am 34 and only found out recently that I am 4 and a half months pregnant with my first child.To be honest,I never thought I would be able to carry - I have been with my partner for 15 years,have an active sex life,and have never used contraception.I have also suffered with my periods ever since I began them at eight years old,so this pregnancy is special to me(as it is for the majority of women)
The reason I didn't realise is because I bled during what was the first two months of my pregnancy,and coupled with period type pains and symptoms I thought nothing of it.
This meant that I carried on doing everything that I normally did,which is where my concerns and worries begin.
I drank alcohol as normal - usually a couple of glasses of wine every night and maybe a can of lager to follow.
I have 10 cats, who need their litter trays cleaning regularly - I never wore gloves to do this.I have 3 dogs,and numerous other pets who also need cages cleaning.
My hobby is gardening, so my hands are usually filthy,and I thought nothig of wiping the sweat from my face with these dirty hands.It never bothered me that I had a mouthful of dirt because of this!!
My doctor and midwife said not to worry as I can't undo these things that I have done,but I am worried.I can't stop thinking about anything that may have happened.
I cut down on my alcohol when I found out I was expecting - maybe 1 small glass of wine every other day, I have now stopped altogether.I wear gloves when cleaning my animals out, and I've stopped the gardening for a while.
I suppose I just need some reassurance from someone,maybe someone has been in the same situation.I just need to put my mind at rest and concentrate on my bump now!Any thoughts?I would be so grateful.
Bagpuss
(Sorry it was long)
