3rd time lucky ?

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  1. Tina18

    Tina18 Well-Known Member

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    Hello ladies

    So I am back here again, not officially TTC yet, only got told yesterday that babies heart beat had stopped, so I have to wait another week to be re-scanned.

    I feel guilty for thinking about TTC again but it's the only thing that can pull me through.

    I do feel lucky that I have had the opportunity to get pregnant twice in 7 months but unfortunately both babies don't make it to the 11 week mark ��

    I looked Into private genetic testing but it's so expensive, so I guess I'll just have to keep my fingers crossed and hope it's third time lucky for me!

    Has anybody had two missed miscarriages and gone onto have a third succesfully? I don't know if im right but reading online MMC is usually to do with the genetic makeup so I am concerned that something's missing? I have also read that takibg baby aspirin could help?

    Any thoughts and experiences would be very welcome xxxx
     
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  2. Emily0505

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    Big hugs sweetheart.

    XX
     
  3. Tina18

    Tina18 Well-Known Member

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    Thanks hun and to you too - we've got this I know it's going to be third time lucky for us x!
     
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    So sorry to hear your sad news!

    Well done for staying positive!

    I really hope you get your sticky bean soon.

    :dust:
     
  5. Tina18

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    Thanks Nemi, I hope you do too xxxx

    Sending lots of babydust xxx
     
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    Aww no I'm so sorry Tina :( I really hope you aren't here for long and you get your take home baby very soon xxxx
     
  7. Tina18

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    Thanks Broody, really appreciate it ️xx hope your ok xxx
     
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    I'm really sorry Tina :( Nothing wrong at all with focusing on TTC again, do whatever you need to do to get you through! Huge hugs :hug:

    I'd go speak to your GP and ask what they'd recommend? xx
     
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    So sorry for your news but there is definitely hope for you. I know my mum had several miscarriages before finally conceiving my brother. Good luck xx
     
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    Huge hugs. I'm so sorry about your miscarriage x
     
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    I had a MC at six weeks, followed by a mmc at 11+4 and then got pregnant with my now 21mo daughter four weeks later. She's absolutely perfect. There is hope after losses.. Good luck xxxxx
     
  12. Tina18

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    Thanks Mrs S ️xx I hope you're well ️xx

    Yea I will give me GP a call tomorrow it's been playing on my mind! Xxxx
     
  13. Tina18

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    Sorry to hear about your miscarriages, I'm so happy you got your rainbow baby at the end ️xxx

    Congratulations on your new pregnancy all the best :) xxxx
     
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    Thanks for sharing your mums experience Michelle, your poor mum xxxx thanks very much for your kind words xxx
     
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    Thankyou for your kind words xxxxx
     
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    The wait is awful and feels like forever. Sorry your going through this again. Maybe your doctor could offer some tests and refer you to a fertility specialist. I have read some ladies on here have been referred after 2 mc, not the standard 3. Hopefully you may get some answers xx
     
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    Thanks Mel, really appreciate it, yea I'm going to give my doctor a call today :) xxxx
     
  18. babyslog

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    I have everything crossed for you hun.

    Just hope this week hurrys up for you so you can grieve and focus on the future xxx
     
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    Thanks hun xx I know same xx

    I'm convinced I have this http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/Hughes-syndrome/Pages/Introduction.aspx
    IVe asked doctor to call me and ask them if they could do a blood test for this as its not a full investigation of bloods and only testing 1 thing in hoping they will ️xx cure is to take baby asprin if your are pregnant, I wish I took it this time arpund I was just too scared as I've read it can cause miscarriage xxxx
     
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    I took baby asprin ( its just asprin but 75mg if i remember correctly) and then stopped ehen i got bfp.
    But ive heard it can help in tri 1 too!

    Defo ask dr for any tests u think will help grt to the bottom of things huni xx
     

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