Hi lovelies,
So, a month ago now i found out i was expecting number 3. Meanwhile, i have a 26 month old and a 4 month old, meaning that if all goes smoothly, by the time the baby arrives ill have my hands full with 3, aged 2 and under!!
Number 3, unfortunately was unplanned, however a happy accident.
Not sure how many of you ladies are aware of de/teatoxing on the pill, but its the only thing that adds up for me after research:
I was on the contraceptive pill, however i was also detoxing using Bootea. It would seem bootea also flushed out the pill and- SURPRISE.
I only tested as had a feeling something wasnt quite right, and had a bought of thrush (which i only EVER get whilst pregnant- i had a horrific previous pregnancy with it!!)
Im finding it so hard to get my head around, i feel sick at the thought of announcing to my family and friends as feel i can only assume that i wont get the reaction i had with my previous planned babies. Atleast not a genuine one if it is a happy one.
Im even petrified at the thought of making a midwife appointment to book in, something i still havent done- despite her being absolutely lovely, as i feel like ill get the 'oh my, does she not take precautions?' judgement.
My partner is over the moon, despite a little shocked and rightly so. I guess, i too am over the moon and the thought of having another little gem gives me butterflies- but i am terrified. I know we can manage this, I'll have all the support in the world- but other peoples opinions affect me so much. I know their reactions wont be genuine to begin with, but i pray they can understand in time and be happy.
I look at my little boys and know i am truly blessed, and an unplanned third baby is an absolute miracle after trying for our first for well over a year.
Am i paranoid or are my thoughts and fears rational?
Weve decided to try and hold back any announcement to family and friends until after a gender scan (which if all is well with little bean, wont be until halloween time). We dont see much of family and friends as we live quite a bit away, so hiding a small bumpage is hopefully possible.
Are there any other ladies on here with 3 under 3 and have lived to tell the tale?
I hope youre all well, and your little beans are thriving xx
So, a month ago now i found out i was expecting number 3. Meanwhile, i have a 26 month old and a 4 month old, meaning that if all goes smoothly, by the time the baby arrives ill have my hands full with 3, aged 2 and under!!
Number 3, unfortunately was unplanned, however a happy accident.
Not sure how many of you ladies are aware of de/teatoxing on the pill, but its the only thing that adds up for me after research:
I was on the contraceptive pill, however i was also detoxing using Bootea. It would seem bootea also flushed out the pill and- SURPRISE.
I only tested as had a feeling something wasnt quite right, and had a bought of thrush (which i only EVER get whilst pregnant- i had a horrific previous pregnancy with it!!)
Im finding it so hard to get my head around, i feel sick at the thought of announcing to my family and friends as feel i can only assume that i wont get the reaction i had with my previous planned babies. Atleast not a genuine one if it is a happy one.
Im even petrified at the thought of making a midwife appointment to book in, something i still havent done- despite her being absolutely lovely, as i feel like ill get the 'oh my, does she not take precautions?' judgement.
My partner is over the moon, despite a little shocked and rightly so. I guess, i too am over the moon and the thought of having another little gem gives me butterflies- but i am terrified. I know we can manage this, I'll have all the support in the world- but other peoples opinions affect me so much. I know their reactions wont be genuine to begin with, but i pray they can understand in time and be happy.
I look at my little boys and know i am truly blessed, and an unplanned third baby is an absolute miracle after trying for our first for well over a year.
Am i paranoid or are my thoughts and fears rational?
Weve decided to try and hold back any announcement to family and friends until after a gender scan (which if all is well with little bean, wont be until halloween time). We dont see much of family and friends as we live quite a bit away, so hiding a small bumpage is hopefully possible.
Are there any other ladies on here with 3 under 3 and have lived to tell the tale?
I hope youre all well, and your little beans are thriving xx