Hi My husband is 18yrs older than me and we are trying for a baby. My husband is 49 this year. He has 3 children from his previous marrage. I know they say men can father a child right up into very old age but it must become more difficult. We've only been trying for 4 months but we're in a bit of a rush. My husband wants to be a father again before he's 50. He is very healthy and fit (much more fitter than me) he works out at least 4 times a week, eats extremely healthy (to my annoyance), his whole outlook on life and his appearance amkes him seem much younger.... is there anyone out there who is in a similar situation as me? We are only planning one child as the age difference does add a few difficulties/problems. any advice?