18 goin on 19 n preggy

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  1. DNB2004

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    IM 18 YEARS OLD.. PREGGY WITH MY FIRST CHILD.. IM STILL LIVIN AT HOME WITH MY PARENTS..BUT ME AND THE FATHER R LOOKIN FOR A PLACE TO LIVE TOGETHER... I JESS WANNA KNOW IF ANYBODY ELSE HAS BEEN IN THIS POSITION. MY PARENTS ACT LIKE THEY REALLY DON'T WANNA HELP ME OUT... THAT'S ONE OF THE REASONS I WANNA LEAVE. IM WORKING AT THE TIME AND GOING TO COLLEGE.. A FULL-TIME STUDENT. THE FATHER IS GOING TO COLLEGE AS WELL... BUT LOOKIN FOR A JOB AT THE TIME.. I FEEL SO HELPLESS..LIKE I HAVE NOBODY TO TALK TO... HIT ME BACK WITH SOME ADVICE PLEASE....O YEAH.. MY NAME IS WANA... :)
     
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    I hope your ok. It all seems bad now and you think that no one can help you. Please do not worry. I no right now that you are emotionally and physically feeling down. That is normal. But all will be WEEL WHEN THAT LITTLE LIFE COMES INTO THE WORLD. YOUR PARENTS WILL BE SO HAPPY AND SO WILL YOU. I just know that every thing will be fine and your paerents will be fine. But right now you need to be strong for the little one inside you. If you need to talk. Just keep in touch. Love Danielle x
     
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    well... everything has gotten a lil better. My parents are now accepting the fact that their babygirl is havin a baby. Me and my boyfriend are doing well..he actually proposed to me. We haven't set a date yet, but we know it will be after the baby is born. I'm now 18 weeks and lovin it !!!!!!!
     
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    I am so happy for you. I am glad that your parents are coming to terms with things,, It was only a matter of time and patience. I can not wait till I get past my 1st trimester... It feels like It is really dragging. I am not worrying as much now as i was before about micarrying again. Although it will always be in the back of my mind. I am just happy that I have getting as far as i have and i just want everything to be alright.

    Love Danielle and Bubble xx

    P.S How far on were you before you started showing with a litlle pot belly? I jusr fell fat at the mo xx
     
  5. DNB2004

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    well im actually jess showing now.. and now im 18 weeks.. so.... it's different for everybody... But i think that im probably going to blow up.. i hope not.. but im almost 5 months and not really showin....so.... every case is diff.
     
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    o yeah... how do u get your timeline at the bottom ???
     
  7. combe

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    hi i am also 18 nearly 19 and pregnant and althou my folks were like that at the start the came round im 28 wks and im dying to see my lil baby soon and my poarents have just about got it into there heads that there baby is having as baby.u need to give them time they r becoming full on grand parents and they need to get used to it in there minds.just give them time dont go rushing out and getting a place ur gonna need all ur money to have a good life for ur baby i moved out and no im back wiht my folks cus i just dont have the money to live on m,y own.appreciate everything they do for u and it will al work ouyt.
    hope ur ok.
    xxxx
     
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    Hey my parents were the same way, very strict....but don't get me wrong that's because they always wanted the best for us kids and didn't want us making any mistakes that we'd later regret in life. My dad always told me if you get pregnant before you're married don't expect us to help raise the kid....which he's right why hsould they have to raise it when it's our kid. And I was always a goody goody two shoes, actually still am......but do what you feel is right, and what makes you happy. You're 18 so you should be fine!
     

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