12 Months Til My Wedding, What to do?!

Discussion in 'Waiting to Try' started by L1991, Jun 25, 2013.

  1. L1991

    L1991 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jun 24, 2013
    Messages:
    86
    Likes Received:
    0
    Hey all, been TTC for 12 months now, however times ticking and our wedding is on 20/06/14 and I've always said I wouldn't want to be a pregnant bride. However I just don't know if I want to give, since I've waited so long already, seems forever away.

    What are your thoughts - by the way, test positive LH surge today! xx
     
  2. Twister999

    Twister999 Member

    Joined:
    Jun 20, 2013
    Messages:
    15
    Likes Received:
    0
    could you move the wedding forward?
     
  3. L1991

    L1991 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jun 24, 2013
    Messages:
    86
    Likes Received:
    0
    No chance, we have everything planned & budgets set to pay it all then. Need time to save, weddings as you will know are EXPENSIVE! Lol - still think i'm gonna keep trying & if i catch, i will delay the wedding for 1 year xx
     
  4. CARNAT22

    CARNAT22 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 20, 2011
    Messages:
    27,558
    Likes Received:
    0
    I'd personally let fate decide. So I'd carry on TTC!

    xxxxxx
     
  5. LynneK

    LynneK Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Dec 12, 2012
    Messages:
    1,678
    Likes Received:
    0
    I have the same issue! Ours is booked for 21.06.14!! But we r going abroad and this has bn booked! So no chance of changing. I need to stop trying come sept, if we don't catch and not start again til mar! Xx
     
  6. L1991

    L1991 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jun 24, 2013
    Messages:
    86
    Likes Received:
    0
    Ours is all booked too! We're just hoping if I do catch then the venue will be ok to delay for a year, hope so lol. So tempted after this month if i dont just to give in until march xxx
     
  7. Lou1103

    Lou1103 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 2, 2013
    Messages:
    3,335
    Likes Received:
    0
    If it were me, i'd carry on trying until august time and have a break for 4months ish so that if you do get pregnant, you'll have a lovely little bump rather than being 9months pregnant xxx
     
  8. wifeywifey

    wifeywifey Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 2, 2012
    Messages:
    2,608
    Likes Received:
    0
    I'd carry on, I was pg when I got married, only early on but I love the fact both my kids were at my wedding even if it was in my tummy

    Sent from my HTC One S using Tapatalk 4 Beta
     
  9. LynneK

    LynneK Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Dec 12, 2012
    Messages:
    1,678
    Likes Received:
    0
    Hi L1991, how are u getting on with ur WTT and ur wedding plans? I've been off the boards for a few months now but starting to pop in now and again to see how everyone is and start making plans to try again xx
     
  10. L1991

    L1991 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jun 24, 2013
    Messages:
    86
    Likes Received:
    0
    Well its less than 6 months til the wedding, we've not been trying but not preventing. I hoping to start actively trying again around April... I havent been here for months either xx
     
  11. LynneK

    LynneK Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Dec 12, 2012
    Messages:
    1,678
    Likes Received:
    0
    Snap! Today is our ov day but tbh I feel like it probs won't end with BDing as we are both exhausted after Xmas!! Roll on 2014! X
     

Share This Page

  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice