On sunday morning everyone i work with came in from a party (which i didnt go to as i dont get on with the girls there, there's a huge post about it in relationships) and told me the father of my child had spent £450 in a chairty raffle!!
£450!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wanna kill him, i got so angry and talking to a few people i trust was saying how he hasnt given a penny towards this baby, he hasnt bought one thing, and i've saved £2000 bought loads already, and have been selling my own stuff on ebay to pay for my scan next week!
I thought i was alright and coping until i met my best friend started telling him about it and burst in to tears as i considered jsut how much that could have bought the baby!
Funnily enough he hasnt spoken to me since, apart from to send me a mothersday text from baby, and he obviously knows hes done wrong, it's just another thing from him.
I really do wish he would start carrying out his little "threats" of oh you'd be so much better off if i wasnt around" i want him to move away so i never have to see him, he never wanted the baby anyway!
I'm not letting him come to my scan next week, i'm not paying £115 for him to come along for free, im gonna ask his mum if she wants to go but unless he pays half like he promised he would hes not going, and i'm not letting him see baby until he starts contributing to it. I dont want money from him exactly, i just want him to be responsible and maybe take an interest in buying things for his child, and possible have some fucking consideration that a baby costs a lot of money and £450 is too much to just throw away on shit!
£450!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wanna kill him, i got so angry and talking to a few people i trust was saying how he hasnt given a penny towards this baby, he hasnt bought one thing, and i've saved £2000 bought loads already, and have been selling my own stuff on ebay to pay for my scan next week!
I thought i was alright and coping until i met my best friend started telling him about it and burst in to tears as i considered jsut how much that could have bought the baby!
Funnily enough he hasnt spoken to me since, apart from to send me a mothersday text from baby, and he obviously knows hes done wrong, it's just another thing from him.
I really do wish he would start carrying out his little "threats" of oh you'd be so much better off if i wasnt around" i want him to move away so i never have to see him, he never wanted the baby anyway!
I'm not letting him come to my scan next week, i'm not paying £115 for him to come along for free, im gonna ask his mum if she wants to go but unless he pays half like he promised he would hes not going, and i'm not letting him see baby until he starts contributing to it. I dont want money from him exactly, i just want him to be responsible and maybe take an interest in buying things for his child, and possible have some fucking consideration that a baby costs a lot of money and £450 is too much to just throw away on shit!
What a prat!!
and you're going to be a brilliant mum so forget that kn*b, let him come to you (and baby).
